A Long Needed Face Lift

As you may all notice that our website finally got a long needed face lift. We want to apologize for not updating our website for a long time. However, it is here now, so we would love for you to take a look at what is new. Some of you may not know that much as changed for us since last year when we came back to the US on furlough. If you do not know some of the changes for us please look under the Ministry section on the menu bar on the right hand side to check out what we are up to right now. Also, if you go to the Newsletter Archive section on the menu bar you can check out our newsletters so far from this year.

We are very excited to see where the Lord is taking us. Last year was very difficult for our family as we found out that we would not be going to the city of Cha Am. We had planned for many years that we would be heading there. It was not only disappointing, but also embarrassing to have to tell all of our family, friends, and supporters. When we returned back to Thailand we were confused as to what our future held. Our whole world had been turned upside down.

In spite of this difficult turn of events, the Lord proved to be faithful as He connected us with new people and opportunities in Bangkok. It started with me, Daniel, taking the government Thai language exam, which lead us to start attending a new Thai church called Church of Joy. After the exam was finished and many new relationships build, we were lead to partnering with the BSC (Baptist Student Center). Now here we are making roots here in Bangkok…not something we ever expected, and yet we see how God has used what has happened to bring us here…and it is good.

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Half Way There

We are about half way through our time here in America on our first furlough home since returning to Thailand as ABWE missionaries. Many people have asked how our time back has been, and where we will be visiting. This post is to update you on our families adjustment, tell about what we have done so far, and let you all know what we will be up to on our second half of our furlough.

Adjusting: The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly
Furlough is a wonderful time of updating our churches and individuals on our time in Thailand so far. It is also a time for seeing family and friends, relaxing, getting encouraged, and encouraging others. We have spent time with many churches and individuals that have encouraged us through their words, hugs, and finances. God has also given us the privilege of sharing about us or sharing a challenge from God’s Word, which we have seen impact all ages by encouraging and challenging them. Lastly, we of course have had opportunities to enjoy things we only get in America, whether that is food, family, sports, or cool weather.
We would not be honest if we didn’t admit that it has also been tough coming back to America. At the beginning, jet lag caused us not only to be exhausted but many emotions came out, particularly from our oldest daughter. It is hard to be a child and not completely understand what it means to live in another country, but be a citizen of another country (or Third Culture Kid). It reminds us of the same struggle we have as believers living in the world but understanding we are citizens of heaven (Ephesians 3:20-21). There are times it is easy to accept our situation, even have joy, but there are other times you just feel out of place, frustrated, or confused. Our family has to deal with these feelings and problems for the rest of our lives, but we know that not only is it worth the cost but the Lord will provide us with the people and tools to deal with it.
Lastly, and possibly most difficult, is coming back to your own culture and having a hard time not seeing all of its faults and sins. When you come from the outside in it is always easier to see the bad side more clearly. We dealt the same way coming to Thailand for the first time. However, when you live in a culture long enough some things become normal and less shocking. We believe experiencing this can be a benefit for ourselves to grow and to challenge others. Yet we must as be aware that we can become judgmental and cynical.
What Have We Done So Far
In the short time we have been back we have had an opportunity to visit four churches, many individuals, family, and friends. While visiting we have updated people on our ministry, preached sermons, shared at Bible studies, challenged kids, lead high school youth groups, and much more.
We flew into LAX, but proceeded quickly to central California by the help of Daniel’s parents. Then Daniel had to drive back to Riverside to pick up a car we would be using. Only to proceed to pick up the family in Central California and keep driving to Northern California. We spent about a week and half there. We visited two churches and many individuals. Most of our time spent was with Brian and Lanisa, former youth pastor’s of Katie. It was a time of fun, laughter, and encouragement. After that we went back to Central California, Visalia, where we have spent most of our time, and have been until now.
What Will We Be Doing
We are now in Orange County with Katie’s parents in Huntington Beach. We will be here until May 1st. We have about 5 churches to visit from Northridge down to Riverside. If you are in the Southern California area please contact us and set up a time to get together. Setting up a time to get together in advanced is the best because often people want to get together with us but forget until the last week. However, the last week of our time here is always way too busy as we are saying our last goodbyes and packing to return to Thailand.
Prayer Requests:
1. Our visits to churches as we update them about our ministry.
2. Our kids adjustment in America.
3. Saying goodbye to family and friends.
4. Safety during travel and health for the family.

A Reflection On Our Past Year of Language Study

Anyone who has studied a second language in depth knows that it is more than just learning to read, speak, and write. It is also about learning a new culture and a new way of thinking. We would love to give you an idea of what we have be learning without overwhelming you. Here are a few facts about the Thai language:

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Thai Alphabet

1. Thai is a tonal language (5 tones).

2. Thai has short and long vowels, which change the word and sometimes change the tone.

3. Thai writing has 44 consonants and 32 vowels.

4. Thai writing has no spaces between the words.

5. Many words in Thai have been replaced with English words, but said like a Thai.

6. There 4 tone markers, along with multiple other symbols that shorten a vowel sound, mark silent letters, etc.

For us language study has been our main job for the past year. Not only has it been the main focus of our ministry, but it is how we survive here in Thailand. We have to use our language to buy a car, register our car, get car insurance, buy a new appliance, etc. Daily routines that seemed so easy in the United States have now become very long and taxing experiences (and sometimes very embarrassing!). However, I believe that these situations not only help us learn language, but also help us to learn more about our own culture and language, learn a lot about my new culture, learn to persevere, and learn to be humble:

1. Learn More About My Own Culture And Language

We have learned so much about our own culture and language by learning Thai. It seems so difficult to understand the colloquial Thai when you are speaking to someone on the street. However, you start to realize how much slang and jargon we used when speaking English too. Then there are also very obvious things like greetings, goodbyes, personal space, speaking straight to the issue or around it, etc. In much of Thai language you would never speak directly to the issue because it may cause someone to “lose face”, where as in English we are more likely to be very specific to avoid ambiguity. As we learn the language and adapt to the culture we begin to find these things more normal. And we know that to be true when we come back to America and see how different the culture is.

2. Learn A Lot About My New Culture

Learning a new language gives you so much insight into the new culture you live in. Sometimes it is purely impossible to understand some of the language without having knowledge of the culture. A very simple example would be that Thailand is a monarchy. There is specific language to be used when addressing or speaking about the king to show respect. That means the same work for “to say” is different in everyday language compared to royal language.  And the royal language is also used in the Bible, since it is speaking of God. Also, the new slang words in Thai show a lot of insight into culture because the younger generation are using more and more English words. The older cultural ways are beginning to fade and be replaced by an “international” culture.  (For example,”finwer” = finale over, meaning “that was awesome!”)

3. Learn to Persevere

We have all had those moments in school where it seems you will never understand what you are supposed to be learning. For some people that was mathematics, language arts, science, or history, but all of us have experienced it. You can remember how frustrated you felt and the desire to “just be done with it.” In language learning there are many of those times. It seems once you have gone over one hill, you see another. However, the reality is that it took us many years of studying to learn our native language, and there will always be things we still don’t understand. From the mouths of those who have been before us in Thailand, you must persevere because it takes time to learn the language. As finite beings, it can feel like a year or more is forever. However, every missionary that has been successful thus far has said that the most important thing is to learn the language.

4. Learn To Be Humble

To learn a new language you have to become like a child and be prepared to laugh at yourself. We have noticed that if we get too stressed about saying something perfect or accidentally saying something embarrassing, then it seems our brain shuts off to learning anything. It is strange to be an adult, yet feel like a child. You find yourself doing charades to buy something at the store because you don’t have enough language to communicate. Or you say a Thai word over and over, but to no avail the employee can only stare with a confused look on their face. However, when they final say it you are positive you said it the same way. In the end, those who have been willing to humble themselves, laugh at themselves, and show an interest in learning Thai not only gain the language but relationships, too.

Fun Videos about Thai Language

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LangHub: Months and Days of the Week

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